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Saturday, May 9, 2020

Happy Mother's Day!


Dear Mummy,
I may not remember those painful days when you struggled carrying me in your tummy.
I must have been very mischievous and kicked you a lot.
I may not remember those straggling toddler years when I must have given you hard times looking for me. Everyone tells a story when once I hid in a corner under a bed and felt asleep and made almost everyone cry looking for me. Everyone says my childhood was a very sick days and you would have the sleepless nights caring for me and looking for shaman (Dhamis /เคाँเค•्เคฐी )
From the time I could vaguely remember, I remember you guiding my everyday lesson after school. I used to wonder how was it that everything you taught me at home use to come in test and exam. You had always been a great teacher. You are my first role model as a teacher.
You would be strict on me and punish me often but would save me from severe punishment from Baba ๐Ÿ˜Š. You are the one who have taught me the values of life; to respect others, help others, do the daily prayers and endless values that now I posses is all from you.
Baba would always be busy with his responsibilities and you would never leave the stone upturned to give us the best life. In the camp, you would work hard running a small shop inside a box to make an extra income to supplement the little salary that baba earned.
Your small shop would teach me the real mathematics. All the addition, subtraction, multiplication, division, profit and loss, I learned practically  from your box-shop. You are the true foundation for my love for mathematics.
With your little savings you bought me a precious gift ( the golden ring) when I completed my grade 8 examination. It is the most precious thing I have received other than my family. The value of this ring is priceless for me. On two occasions I nearly lost it but all due to your true love and blessing it could not separate from me.
As I grew up, you became my best friend. You had been our shield whenever Baba became angry ๐Ÿ˜„. I know then, your slap would be more fun then being a punishment for me. ๐Ÿ˜‚
Everything good in me is all your teaching and anything bad in me is my own learning. ๐Ÿ˜„

I may not call you everyday or every week, but it never means I don't miss you or love. I love you to eternity. But your wish to get a daughter-in-law (buhari / เคฌुเคนाเคฐी) SORRY I can not fulfill for now ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Though no single day is enough to show the love and gratitude to mother or even father, the world has recognized today as the mother's day. 
Wish you a very  HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. May my mother always be blessed with best health and happiness. May I be able to fulfill all the dreams and wishes of my parents. (buhari aside for now๐Ÿ˜œ).

Saturday, June 15, 2019

Happy Father's Day!



While it is the mother who carries us nine months in her womb and bears the endless pain to bring us in this beautiful world. The one who remains sleepless when we are sick. She always puts the family before and never gives up and loves us the most. Nevertheless, we have equally responsible father who takes the responsibility of the family on his shoulder throughout his life. He assists the mother with various things. They work as a team to make a successful family and to give wonderful life to their children.
During my childhood, I had always loved my mummy but feared my baba (dad). Mummy was my best friend but I was hardly attached to baba. My sister was more attached to him. I was mummy's son and she was baba's daughter. Baba always kept us under strict rule. We were restricted to be outside the house after 6:00 pm. We were never permitted for class picnics or with friends. I hated those restriction very much. I envied the freedom of my other friends. One day during my undergrad, I was taking a lonely walk after a dinner, I was feeling very lonely and emotional. There was a beep of a message in my mobile. It was a voucher recharge from baba. I got more emotional. I was recalling all the moments with baba. I realized how much caring he was to me. He was strict because he did not want me to get spoiled. He had always shouldered the responsibility of the family and never let us down. He always provided us with our need. He never failed to do his duty as a good father. That evening, I spent more than an hour crying on my own in the middle of Samtse College's Football ground.
 The vacation after my that, I could feel how friendly he was. It was my fear that kept me away from him. When I realized how much he cared for us, he was a great man to be with. Now, when I walk with him, I feel the great moment. I feel like I am with my big brother. I feel like I am with my best friend. He is the best man to be with. On this very special day, I would wish you a very Happy Father's Day, baba. I love you endlessly and you are my HERO. You and mummy are my inspiration to whom I can look upon as my role model. The values you two have given to me will always be used to serve others and create smile in other's lips. I too would like to touch the heart of others like how you both have.
I Love You, Baba
I Love You, Mummy.
Happy Father's Day!


Saturday, April 7, 2018

All Religion Is Equivalent

I am not a master of any religion nor do I have a very good understanding of any religion. I am just an ordinary human being. Yet, today I am here to write my understanding upon religion. This piece of writing is not to hurt anyone’s sentiment; rather this is an attempt to open some people’s eyes.
Why do people practice different religion? Why do people switch/change their religion? Why do they discriminate other’s religion? People say “My religion is better than others.” Is it really true? These are some of the questions which always come in my mind and I feel that everyone should try to find answer for these.
The ultimate aim of every religion is the peace and liberation. I do not think, in any religious scripture, there is anything written about one’s religion being better than other’s or anything about discrimination for religion. Does any learned good religion practitioner preach these things to their disciple? I do not think so. If there are some… they have a political motive or some harmful motive. It is we, the ordinary human, who has a very little knowledge about our own religion and start being arrogant and discriminate other’s faith.
Religion should have been the factor which units the whole world, however, the reality is just becoming the opposite. The world has been shattered into fragments in the name of religion. It is now time for everyone to realize the truth. The truth is that every religion is equivalent. The founder of the religion and the highly learned religion master conveys the same but it is we the ordinary human who understands just the half truth. We are not able to understand the full truth about religion because we are covered with sin. Though we say we are practicing one religion, we are still with arrogance, ego and selfishness within us, which obstructs us from realizing the truth of universe. How can one achieve liberation, if one cannot contribute to the worldly peace and do not have a heart of love and equality for others.
People who always chant prayers will not lead to liberation unless they have a pure heart. People who donate thousands will not lead to liberation until they become compassionate within. And people who practice their religion to the best will not gifted liberation unless they have the equal value for other’s faith. Therefore, let us all value every religion as one and respect others faith too. The Golden Rule of all the religion also says the same meaning in different words.

"All Religion is Equivalent"





Friday, March 23, 2018

The Darkest June (Book review)

Author – Karma tenzin (Yongba)

The Darkest June is a fictional story about how Wangduephodrang Dzong was ablaze. It has nothing to do with the fact. It is purely a creative writing.
The story says how a boy, known by his pet name Jambo, from Trongsa runs away from his home at night and takes himself to lead his own life. From the day he sees the Wangduephodrang Dzong, he sees a recurrent dream about the dzong being in ablaze with him in the courtyard of the dzong.
The story is written in parallel (Fractured Tandem), one being the story of the boy and how he spends his life in Bhutan and Jaigoan-the border town to Bhutan, and the other story is about how a group of Europeans after knowing about the presence of a very rare diamond in Wangdue Dzong, plans to get it.
In the climax, the men of these Europeans happen to visit Bhutan through Jombo’s travel agency. Jumbo is somehow linked with the robbery of the rare diamond rock from the dzong and its blazing. Jumbo’s recurrent dream was the omen for this incidence.
I love the way our own Bhutanese writers are making an effort to publish more and more books. As a Bhutanese, we should support and encourage more Bhutanese writers to come up with their publication.
Kudos to all the writers!

Sengdhyen


Friday, March 16, 2018

The Alchemist –By Paulo Coelho (Book review)


The Alchemist –By Paulo Coelho” was the first novel I had ever read back in 2007. Novel was never a choice of book for me but when I saw this book lying on my friend’s desk, I picked it and went reading it throughout. I remember reading it as if I had to appear the exam about this book, the next day.
Now, it has already past more than a decade. When I saw this book in the school library a few days ago, I had a flashback memory of then. I could not remember the story inside rather I was more curious, what it was that made me read this book in one go. I choose to read again.

The Alchemist is a story of a boy who wanted to travel around the world; hence he leaves his house and becomes a shepherd so that he can travel. The boy sees a recurrent dream of a child talking about finding a treasure near the Egyptian pyramids. His dream leads him to meet a Gypsy woman (dream interpreter) and an old king who suggests him to follow his dream.
The boy sells his flock and proceeds to Africa. He encounters a thief who steals all his money and flees. The boy works for a crystal merchant for almost a year and make some money. Believing in the omen he opts to move towards his treasure than to return back. In the desert, in the oasis he finds his love Fatima and his ability to interpret the omen makes earns him lots of gold. During his journey towards the Egyptian pyramids through the desert, he had to risk his life. However, he learns many lessons too.
Finally, after crossing the deadly desert and taking much risk, when he reaches the pyramid to get his treasure he is surprised to know where his treasure actually was. To know it, you should read the book as I did.

Had the boy given up on his dream, he wouldn’t get his treasure. Had I given up, I wouldn’t have known the full story. Now, if you want to know, do not give up. Just get the book and start reading. It is worth reading.



Sengdhyen

Saturday, March 10, 2018

My Reading & Writing Habit

It is yet for me to develop a good reading and writing habit. This means I am neither a regular reader nor a regular writer, but I endeavor to be one. Let me share about my Reading & Writing Habit.
During my primary classes, I loved reading Lady Bird Books, Moral Stories and Twinkle Comics. Later I choose Goosebumps series and Famous Five. When I was in eighth standard I remember my Liberian (Changzamtog LSS, 2003) keeping my Ramayan series ready for me. When I reached my high school (Yangchenphug HSS), I was crazy to learn more on Mahathma Gandhi. So, I was hunting for Gandhi’s Biography and his works. I was inspired by Gandhi after watching his documentary in one of my lower secondary teacher’s house (Mrs. Dechen Dolkar). Reading about Gandhi when I was in standard IX really helped me for standard X History, as it was a part of curriculum in Indian History. After I read the book “Who will cry when you die- by Robin S Sharma”, I interest in reading diverted towards self-help books.
However, after I reached standard XI, we had no library class, though we were issued card and had access to library. Since taking library was not compulsory for us, I hardly took any. After which I lost the reading habit. After standard XII, I have hardly read any books. If I am asked to list them, I can count them in my fingers because they are very few. Since, 2016 I have been trying to redevelop my reading habit and hence I could even read novels which I never liked to read before; because of its lengthy story. Now on I will be reading the books as well write the short review on them.
To talk about my writing habit, it was only for school and collage works that I had written till my graduation. Even after my graduation my writing habit is almost to NIL. I created my blogger account in 2011 but I rarely have write-ups to be posted in my blog. There are few occasions when my heart urges me to write.
However, as I have opted to make reading and writing my habits of life, I am starting my writings with this piece. Henceforth, I will also be writing book reviews of all the books I read.

Good Luck to myself to be a regular reader and a writer.

Sengdhyen